BDSM AND LOVE!

LOVE!

Talk about BDSM and love for many seems something strange or even unorthodox, as if the BDSM excluded. The BDSM and love are not opposed points, but complementary. You can be bdsmer and love, it is also possible to have a D / s relationship without love. 

Some argue that love and then make the relationship D / s is not desirable, as one of those involved can do this not to lose the partner and the relationship is impaired, BDSM practices and heart vanilla, the ideal is to be bdsmer and within relationship arises love.

In my years of living and counseling, I learned that in the field of relationship and love, there are no rules and formulas, each interaction is one, can love and becomes bdsmer like being bdsmer and D / s relationship arises love, and You may have BDSM practices without love! 

However I want to talk about BDSM with love! If the top and bottom relationship exists amplification of sensations, because of the symbols -harness, ropes, chains ...; cheiros- of sweat, skin, specific scents of each;Voice Owner; the pleasure of pain, pleasure in giving pleasure ... When neurotransmitters work with an expanded capacity and orgasm is something far superior to what is known now add it all the touch of love!Having an intense and strong session with someone you love! The world ends !!! The relationship of time and space, is diferenciada- hours become minutes, day passes and you do not notice, you arrive at the time of exhaustion! The subspace- altered states of consciousness, pleasure / pain / pleasure become too intense! As Camões:

If you do not know literature, I'd say he was a bdsmer! For masterfully puts it : "It's pain without hurting desatina" You want to be trapped by thewill, "" You serve who wins, the winner "" You have someone kill us, loyalty. "  Although there is no Camões reports with the practices we love, he was a womanizer so lost his eye, but a single sensitivity, understand love as a relationship of pain / pleasure.

If you love your, your sub, allow yourself to love! The BDSM is completed in love, amplifies the sensations and completeness. 

Allow yourself!  

That this text has helped many to meet with your feelings!

A hug!

Marcelo Santos