BDSM AND TRUST.

TRUST X BDSM !!

A game where people indulge, simply because there is a connection. Be affinity, sexual, p oder or little quirks that lead to trust someone. Where promises intersect. What you need to trust someone? Knowing personal data is important? After submissive accounts OWNER want, not husbands is not ... rulers want possessions and not wives .... what for so much information ??

Trust is to give the most delicate part we have: our heart. Trust is a precious, a treasure that should be given with caution, because it is the most beautiful part of a friendship and the strongest bond of a double relationship. You do not need to know everything about that person because the connection is excellent, and it is enough to have a D / s? On the other hand, trust is essential for intimacy is established and develop.

This connection goes far beyond the simple psychological field; we talk about an emotional connection that builds our behavior. So much so that, from the philosophy and sociology, explained why trust in humanity acquires a more authentic level and revealing than other animals. Animals rely on their peers of the same species by a simple instinctive behavior.Most of the time people do consciously, applying a "check": a very special filter based on your experiences.

"Trust everybody is nonsense, but trust no one is a neurotic stupidity" .- Juvenal -

When we talk about confidence, we refer to positive emotions to ensure the strength of a bond. However, the way a person trust others is one aspect that defines your personality. A low self-esteem, a traumatic childhood or have felt the pain of betrayal hinder our ability to trust the other. emotional needs prevent them from doing the correct reading of the people who approach us. A simple .... He took care of me, saw I love you. Often we ourselves are to blame for our disappointments.

Trust implies no "need to know everything" On the other hand, remember that our brain needs to simplify and live a daily routine without risks. He needs a proper emotional balance. If you think about it, we all work on autopilot: let our mind in the hands of a commander who at every moment gives us confidence and leads.

Trust this doctor, he knows what to do and will help you. Trust that DOM seems to have a lot of knowledge, will be safe. Trust every day when you go out to the street, the fatality is not something we encounter all the time.

We have to admit that when we are betrayed is very difficult to trust again, it's as if ripped out a piece of us. It is as if the very Shylock's "Merchant of Venice" would charge your debt and take a piece of our heart; It is a permanent and deep wound that prevents us, in many cases, of the closely relate to someone.

"The best way to know if you can trust someone is first offering the illusion that trust her. Give power someone and know who is. "Trusting someone in BDSM is not the same as trust your neighbor, colleague or partner. It is much larger because it involves delivering your body to someone where you will use, leave marks, open wounds .... and if that person has no right knowledge and techniques? You trusted believed that only the connection was enough. and when someone is submissive or dominant, resolve not accept the termination of the relationship and decides to blackmail him with photos and videos when they were together? And where trust was. I'm not saying that we should not trust anyone, we are not neurotic. But to look BDSM different look how they look at life vanilla. caution, always observing, questioning, studying, seeking information and unhurried. Unfortunately what I observe, they are submissive so they find a 'wannabe OWNER "cease to apply everything they have learned to lead by emotions and prosecution of the Dominator.

The most painful disappointments are those we experience with the people closest. In such cases, the most troublesome is that mistrust extends to other areas of our lives: we start to distrust everything close in and isolate ourselves from others.

Within the "eternal manual disenchanted" "I'll never trust anyone, people are harmful, self-serving and selfish." Unless we learn from our mistakes, we will never have another opportunity to be Happy.

Tip ... A conscious and vital intelligence is a direct invitation for survival and self-assessment, where trust in ourselves and in others is the most powerful substrate to give us discernment and make good CHOICES.

Constantine Almeida 
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