50 SHADES OF GRAY.

       PRINCIPLE OF PLEASURE AND PRINCIPLE OF REALITY!

"Many people find BDSM through books and movies, and your imagination is the hope that the dominant or submissive, to behave like the books. Qdo not happen the way imagined, are disappointed and discredit the BDSM."

Qdo been watching 50 tones, then saw an allusion to a story mt known, the Cinderella. Only Cinderella, postmodern, forgive me who do not like this term was the best I could. A jo is simple sensitive, making literature, which finds a prince dominant and sadistic, which gives you an imported car, lives in an apartment that looks like a palace, has helicopter and has a life of dreams ... I have some sad news to give the submissive: "IN BRAZIL, domineering MARK POINT AT WORK, MTS TIMES USING SPECIAL CHECK, YOUR CAR iS NOT A CAR ZERO AND DWELL IN A SMALL APARTMENT." Excuse me for cruelty ... but it's true.

Let's go out for a book, "The Dominator." Tara Sue Me. Book well written, clear dialogue. The Dominator is called Nathaniel West, tycoon, rich and lonely. His submissive Abigail King librarian, with a common and simple life. Once again the keynote of glamor, wealth, and the change of a simple life for a life of pleasure only imagined.

And I could go on the books and films related to BDSM, no matter how good, are the fruit of the imagination of a writer, different from the reality. Freud addressed this conflict posing as; Pleasure Principle X principle of Reality, however the reality is beautiful, never reaches the foot of dreams and desires and pleasures imagined. We need to put your feet on the ground and understand that BDSM is a way of life, has glamor, has unknown pleasures of mortal vain ... but never will equal the dreams and fantasies that many books put on the head of mts people.

DREAM IS NOT PROBLEM, BUT THE EVENT MAKES WANT PEOPLE REALITY IS EQUAL TO YOUR DREAM, THE DECEPTION IS TREMENDOUS AND DEEP!

The bonus is never equal to expectation, for those who live in dreams!

Live it up, but do not expect too much from others, because we are very flawed ... we are more realistic!

Marcelo Santos.