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quarta-feira, 14 de março de 2018

BDSM: VARIOUS LEVELS SUBSPACE.

LEVELS SUBSPACE!



DEDICATE THIS TEXT FOR A VERY SPECIAL SUB ALEXIASUBEDAS, MASTER IN BIOCHEMISTRY AND DRUG, OFTEN THIS TEXT discussed to understand DYNAMICS OF NEUROTRANSMITTERS! 

Many things need to delve into the BDSM because stirs areas hitherto unexplored, is the science and the human - sexuality have always been latent but never exercised her session and the relationship D / s, the awakens generating sensations and feelings unknown .
One of these sensations as shrouded in mystery and generate as much fear in the middle is the subspace. The subspace as says the image above is a non-verbal state of ecstasy, but this nonverbal state has several levels, various gradations. Unfortunately we do not have a more scientific study, with measurements and control, most of the information is personal or shared experiences that generates a form of knowledge, but we have to research a lot yet.
I thought of writing a text-based information that I consider reliable as already experienced this a few times with a sub I had, but I preferred to translate a text on this blog:   http://friskybusinessboutique.com/the-endorphin-levels-in-bdsm /      
Let the text :
 "The author is not a physician, although this information has been verified with a doctor and two nurses who were in the BDSM scene. The Frisky Business Boutique assumes no responsibility for the people who use this information or the effects that may arise from the application of information in this article.
Although everyone in the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, very few people really understand what they are and how they work, what is the "endorphin high" and all about how you can properly induce the body to produce them. This short text will answer some questions, and serve as a guide for anyone Top can dominate and take your (their) sub to act successfully going into a state of very deep endorphin stupor (also known as subspace "leaving them (them) in a trembling ecstasy " ). Obs- I believe that pleasure is 100 times greater than a griffin common- my enjoyment)
The endorphin high is generated by a lot of natural chemicals as morphine, pumps the body in the brain that reduce the sensitivity of a person to pain and raises the threshold of ability to bear it. The fact that the body seems to release these endorphins in "loads" for action, there are keys that are activated by manipulating the body to produce and release them at the right time when the load is ready (obs- The Top handles these neurotransmitters inducing a deepening in my italics subspace-)
Another chemical, adrenaline, is also produced by the body in response to pain, and their behavior should also be understood, this substance keeps the body awake, active, increasing circulation and heart rate, raising the status of attention and feeling danger, enabling the body and the brain with greater intensity capturing all the excitement. This causes the sensations are captured with intensity and mixed endorphins to be happy.
The endorphin is released in its entirety, and creates in the body a deep state of pleasure and need about ten minutes to generate another. After the body releases a load on the system, it needs at least ten minutes of some kind of stimulation before it is ready to release another. This stimulation can be just about anything - sensations of play, light removal, flogging, caning or light, for example - and not have to match the intensity of stimulation caused the release of the last load of endorphins.
With this information, you can look at a session of two points, top and bottom views, one pilots the other is driven.
When a scene starts, there endorphins in submissive and even mild torment is very strong, and well, painful! Fortunately, the body maintains a reserve endorphin in place, ready to release in the event of an emergency. This reservation of endorphins is released after only a few minutes of stimulation relatively light to reach a light climax, and suddenly the pain threshold considerably increases. Now, one can easily tolerate and expand the capacity and limits.
This new state, more tolerant to pain is the A Level . There altered state of consciousness yet, but there is a threshold of amplified pain.
Once that happened, to the top of the next 10 minutes is spent doing anything that provides relatively mild stimulation, but steady to induce the body of the submissive to create the next endorphin load for release. This is a good time to feel the game, removing light, flogging or whipping. This is an opportunity for the Top relax, since the stimulation can be very light and easy to apply during this time.
Once the ten minutes passed, a build in intensity over a subsequent period of five minutes will excite the body to a peak of 10 to 15 seconds of intense stimulation just to exceed the threshold current of the person pain, the body is i prepared and stimulated to eject the second endorphin load. His newly made endorphin load will be released into the bloodstream. Now the sub will be at Level Two , with still no perceptive altered state of consciousness (in addition to gasp in relief and pleasure, and should cease the intensity of the session), but there is a considerable and remarkable jump in pain threshold now a greater capacity to absorb and withstand the pain.
After that, some ten minutes of light and easy stimulation causes the body to generate the next load. Keep it well below the pain threshold that you created now, with only a small heavy blow from time to time, about a minute apart .. Time to relax Tops; a rest arm and wrist. This relaxation   ten minutes is followed by five minutes of intensity again to well above the previous level. The pain threshold is expanded and it can take much more before the body interprets this as "dangerous situation, crisis," triggering the next endorphin load. Finish with 10 seconds to one minute of a very intense pulse,  and the body will inject the next charge.
Now in Level Three,  the sub will feel a bit dizzy, displaying a state slightly drugged. Her eyelids should appear heavy, and he will fall into a more relaxed condition than before, more low moans, and lower inhibitions. Again, the application ten minutesof any relatively stimulation soft followed by a gradual increase of five minutes and an intense climax of 10 to 15 seconds, well beyond the previous  and release the next load of endorphins and push the sub to an area of Level four very nice!
Level Four this state, there is a state of consciousness very defined and changed. The sub will feel drugged and will be very obedient. However, this is achieved by major rush of releases he has received so far, the result of intense climax just used to put it on that level. The bottom is still quite communicative and your reaction time is still fast. It can even be hypersensitive: a small blow with a stick, cane or whip can now generate a huge amount of spasms or sub body jolts. Now, during the ten minutesThe moans will be longer and deeper, the body often will be clumsy and may have reactions falls, This is the best top of the moment: he can still relax and not work hard, producing fine groans of ecstasy of their sub with virtually no provocation! The threshold of pain is magnified, although the reaction time is increased from the adrenaline. The toughest occasional blows are given and well received, and the reactions are certainly encouraging them.
The sexual game with the sub should occur around the Level Three or Four . After reaching Level Five , the sub may be unable to concentrate for a long time what you are doing. This may result in inhibition in love and indulgence, resulting ecstatic heights never before experienced, or sub (male) may lose his erection and being unable to concentrate. There's no telling which way the sub will when it reaches the Level Five or Six.
After this period of ten minutes spare endorphins, it is important to be very sensitive to threshold levels earlier crossed, as the beginning starts with five minutes to build in intensity that will end in the most intense boundary pushing the sub to a deeper level. For this session (assuming the top to the Level Five). The submissive will have a very high pain threshold at this time, but will also be quite groggy and less able to communicate a safe word. In fact, the sub will now be so passive that it is very unlikely that he would use it, even if he wants to do it! Then push this "grand finale" with finesse and sensitivity to what is happening to the sub! After 10 to 30 seconds she will have - in a wonderful explosion - the latter charge endorphins will push the sub to Level Five: a supreme state of bliss, docility and sub capacity for only feel. The bottom will be very soft and relaxed and suddenly can return to the state of consciousness because of the adrenaline.
This is the point that most people end up with the scene and removes the sub and places it in a blanket and starts all important care, aftercare . However, for those who know the sub limits now gentle stimulation becomes quite intense, the sub can not mutter anything, you have no way to speak the word of segurança.l. The sub can hardly speak, Best keep relatively intense stimulation, but not too extreme. The strongest intensity will keep the adrenaline levels, and the combination with the high levels of endorphins creates intense emotion condition and simultaneously intense relaxation for sub.Novamente ends after ten minutes with an intensity level beyond which reached more early, with an extreme point of 10 the 15seconds when the next load endorphin is released we brought the sub to a Level Six amazing! It should only be attempted with Tops and bottoms already know quite a long time and know the limits of each um.Cuidado must be exercised throughout this time .
The sub's behavior can become unpredictable at this time with all the adrenaline and endorphins running through the body. Be prepared to contain some wild reactions (or at least be out of danger). The sub is in a state so intensely altered consciousness that their reactions could be extremely primitive. He may only be able to animal noises and very little speech. Following this reasoning, approach would sound like a wild animal: very smoothly, quietly talk soothing and gesturing. Be prepared for sudden jerks, or try to escape. Do not take aggressive behavior! In Level Six , this person is totally out of the Top si.Cuidados are essential, as can happen a sub attack as an endangered animals trying to escape and survive. "


This text shows how to induce subspace going on many levels that I consider neither safe nor for the sun nor to the sub, placed so that there is an understanding of the various levels of the subspace, which I suggest is not to try to do this, unless are quite a while in a D / s.
Event of the subspace there calmly and carefully as it is an altered state of consciousness!

Marcelo Santos

segunda-feira, 12 de março de 2018

O BDSM: SOMOS MINORIA? POUCOS GOSTAM DESTAS PRÁTICAS?

Somos herdeiros de nós mesmos!


Nos anos 90 teve um filme ; "Instinto Selvagem", em que uma dominadora (escritora) é suspeita de assassinar o parceiro com quem estava tendo uma relação sexual, e um detetive começa a investigá-la; Michel Douglas. Em determinado trecho do filme quando eles estão conversando sobre a relação de dominação, ele pergunta se na boite em que estão, há alguém assim, ela responde que sim mas ainda não sabem que são!

Esta afirmação me fez pensar muito! Temos sempre trabalhado com a idéia de que somos um pequeno grupo com desejos diferentes da maioria. Será? Somos minoria?

Quando no filme "Instinto Selvagem', quando Sharon Stone diz que muito que estavam na boite teriam uma relação de dominação, mas não sabiam que gostavam, me fez voar no tempo e no espaço, adentrando nas memórias de outras vidas que estão dentro de nós.

Somos herdeiros de nós mesmo! A estrutura trabalhista por séculos, a sociedade deste planeta esteve assentada no escravismo, em épocas remotas: os povos conquistados se tornavam escravos dos conquistadores, depois houve a escravidão negra, que só foi acabar no séc XIX em quase todo o planeta! Se entendermos que já reencarnamos várias vezes, para chegarmos como estamos hoje, significa que em algum ou muitos momentos fomos ou senhores ou escravos, e essas lembranças estão guardadas dentro de nós. Cheiros, sabores, imagens, nos fazem parar e ter sensações estranhas e aparentemente desconhecidas de nós,  que não sabemos de onde vieram! Mas o nosso eu profundo sim, vieram de lembranças arquivadas de vidas passadas!

Não quero levantar a bandeira de que todos são de alguma forma bdsmers, pois isto é uma inverdade, mas muitas pessoas são, e precisam ter esta experiência como uma forma de colocar para fora vivencias de vidas passadas e sensações prazerosas que tiveram ou não! Gerando um maior conhecimento de si e com o seu eu profundo. Tivemos amores incríveis, relações sexuais magníficas e também decepções horrendas e sofrimentos atrozes... somos tudo isto. A pratica do sadomasoquismo não consensual não é algo novo para muitos de nós- esquecemos, pois era o melhor que a espiritualidade tinha que fazer, pois ficaríamos presos no passado; mas muitos já vivenciaram isto antes. "Não somos tão purinhos como imaginamos, temos histórias de séculos dentro de nós!"

Muitas pessoas são potencialmente bdsmers, talvez mais do que imaginamos, basta dar vazão a estes desejos que eles virão como um turbilhão. 
Caso tenha estes desejos, ao invés de reprimi-los como algo sujo, doentio ou ruim, os vivencie entendendo muitas emoções, sentimentos e desejos... Só conseguimos ter paz quando descobrimos quem somos! .
" Somos mais do que imaginamos!"

Marcelo Santos

sexta-feira, 9 de março de 2018

QUEM SOMOS?

A NECESSIDADE DA AUTODESCOBERTA!

Leio alguns textos, e muitos escritores colocam como se o exercício da sexualidade fosse uma simples questão de gosto, como se estivéssemos num supermercado da sexualidade: hoje sou Dom, amanhã, sub, depois switcher, depois homossexual, depois bissexual etc...


A sexualidade humana é o que temos de mais profundo e ela norteia toda a nossa psiquê, não escolhemos quem somos ou o que nos tornamos- quem somos é fruto de um passado,  de outras vidas, de impressões objetivas e subjetivas, de traumas e realizações. Quem somos é um somatório de tudo que passamos, além das nossas tendências naturais.


Quantas pessoas tentam de todas as formas reprimir tendências sexuais, por não estarem de acordo com o que se acredita ou a sua família aceita, só que ninguém consegue se esconder de si mesmo. O BDSM ou outras práticas, para muitos, não é mais um cardápio para se escolher,  contudo se a pessoa é Bdsmer, ela ama o jogo de dominação, o clima de cordas , correntes , velas etc. Não se consegue reprimir sensações, pensamentos, sonhos...O inconsciente é como uma animal livre a se manifestar sem travas ou ferrolhos.
Se a pessoa é submissa, viva intensamente o que se é, escolhendo bem o (a) parceiro (a) e se plenifique! Se é Dom, Domme viva com responsabilidade- pois tem vidas em suas mãos. Se a pessoa é homossexual assuma e seja feliz. Não tenhamos medo de ser quem somos. Se a sociedade não aceita , tenhamos os cuidados necessários para não sermos execrados e vivamos.





Saibamos que reprimir o que se é,além de gerar doenças físicas e emocionais, nos leva ao caminho da infelicidade. SER FELIZ É UM COMPROMISSO QUE TEMOS COM A VIDA!



Marcelo Santos 


BDSM AND THE ISSUE OF PERSONAL IDENTITY.

BDSM AND THE ISSUE OF PERSONAL IDENTITY.

WHO ARE WE?


WHO ARE WE?




"To be or not to be, that is the question: is the noblest.
In our spirit suffer stones and arrows
With that Fortune, raging in the targets,
Or rebel us against a sea of ​​trials
And in the fight to put an end to them? Die .. sleep: no more ".

Shakespeare one of the greatest writers of humanity, succeeded in his works, addressing the many feelings of human beings. The paixão- Romeo and Juliet; ganância- the Macbeth; the inveja- Othello, the vingança- Hamlet, among others ... He approached the lines of his works, religion, sexuality, and spirituality ... a spirit beyond his time. Specifically in this paper I will discuss the tragédia- HAMLET; from the perspective of sexuality, spirituality, and the question of the identity of each of us, our essence. 
In the play, " ituada in Denmark, recounts the  story  of how Prince Hamlet  tries to avenge the death of his father,  the king, executed by Claudius, his brother who poisoned him and then took the throne by marrying the queen his mother. " 1
The story is simple, but it's very deep feelings, greed, revenge, the fight between siblings, love between in-laws etc ... But I want to address is its use of two questions, the first, the spectrum his father who was murdered that appears to his son, prince Hamlet. The second to be- the question "who are we?"

  1. The time is between 1509- 1601, there was the realization that spirits that appear or are seen, are demonstration or demons or God, in case someone dead, the Catholic Church and the Reformed - started in 1517 with Luther; as manifestations of the devil. Shakespeare unlike the interpretation of the time on your part, shows a spirit that has individualidade- King Hamlet; and knowledge of what happened to him, communicates with his son- medium, and only Prince Hamlet is who sees it. The Book of Spirits will only come in 1857 when addresses these issues, the English writer addresses already in the seventeenth century. A person beyond his time, that actually impacted humanity.
  2. The issue of Ser Unlike the time that were more concerned with survival, disease control, the question of being was placed in the background and will only come with great force with Freud, placing the human psyche, with its ego structure, id, superego and the unconscious and conscious. The English writer in his book makes a point that today is the big question of humanity; WHO WE ARE?
We got the moon, discovered the structure of the formation of the human-genome project; yet we are unknown to ourselves. We have trends that were born with us and do not know how to deal with them, we have shadows in our personality that we dulls and infelicita and still do not know who we are, or were. We are alienated from ourselves. Humanity suffers from an epidemic that is depression and not know who we are or why we suffer so much anguish and emotional pain. We prefer to deal with the consequence remedies to find out the causes. 
This text before addressing self-help actions, seeks to show for each of the read, that we are immortal:  WE ARE SPIRITS IMMORTAL! NOW wetransition BY MANY MOMENTS OF THE HISTORY OF MANKIND, DID GOOD DEEDS AND SOME TERRIBLE, SO THE PAST OF AMNESIA.ENCARNAÇÃO THIS IS THE BEST we've ever had, MANY WISHES AND FEELINGS THAT WE HAVE, NOT ONLY FRUIT OF A LIFE, BUT OTHER. WE ARE A PERSON WHO HAD VARIOUS BODIES, MANY Position- KINGS, QUEENS, SLAVES, PRIESTS, NUNS, BISHOPS, KNIGHTS, THIEVES, prostitutes ... MEN, WOMEN, GAYS ETC ... WE ARE MULTIPLE BEINGS!

Some trends we have as bdsmers to be slaves or Lords may originate in other lives, so many submissive pose as "soul submissive" because they feel so, as their submission fruit of your soul. I will not go into discussion whether or not but feel
like this! The longest trip we can do, is not to find out who fomos- as well as extremely painful not help; but who we are, who we become discover who you are, what trends have, and what you want to do with your life, and how to relate to each other, to their sexuality, with its similar without preconceitos- sometimes tacamos stones in people who were equal in practices that have already done. Let us be tolerant of each other and always know: WE ARE MULTIPLE BEINGS, UNITED IN ONE PERSONALITY, THAT WHEN DESCORTINADO BY THE COMPANY HUMAN WILL GENERATE THE GREATEST STORY REVOLUTION.

Seek to be happy and make others happy!

A hug Marcelo Santos

Below the song "Journey to the Ego Fund" Ego Trip band.



Book Hamlet in pdf-  Hamlet pdf

MAIS DE 70.000 VISUALIZAÇÕES!

Obrigado por participarem deste blog, graças a vocês leitores é que chegamos a esta marca!

Quando iniciamos este blog, buscávamos um espaço de análise e aprofundamento, não só de como praticar o BDSM, nem só do que seria este estilo de vida. Busquei um espaço que pudéssemos repensar o ser humano de uma forma mais ampla, não só o sexo pelo sexo, mas tudo que estava envolvido na expressão sexual, o homem noético: sua tendências mais profundas- o inconsciente, o consciente e o inconsciente coletivo; a expressão de vidas passadas, o BDSM como a forma mais profunda de expressão da sexualidade. 

Não imaginava chegar tão longe, mas acredito que tenho conseguido levar as pessoas a respeitar e se aprofundar nesta prática tão prazerosa e profunda.

Obrigado mais uma vez, espero contribuições e temas para que possamos desenvolver!


Marcelo Santos